Wednesday, December 30, 2015

How to Dress as a Curvy Pear: Winter Chic Edition


There's nothing like closing out the old year with a really good outfit, or so Yours Truly thinks. A really smashing look is hard to find, however, when you're 5'4 with a bottom-heavy figure and love handles from the chocolate that loves you back a little too much. Sound familiar? If so, read on! 


(Please note: Monica has moved to a new blog & a new niche: nutrition & lifestyle for PCOS babes. Want to visit me there?.)



This is Part II to one of my most popular blog posts, From Monica's Closet: How to Dress as a Curvy Pear. If you're looking for tips on how to style taller-than-average height, check out 5'8 Amy's interview here


Yours Truly's body type is what I like to call a curvy pear. A pear-shaped woman is usually defined as a lady whose hips are her widest measurement, tapering from small bust, shoulders and arms to a curvier derriere. However some of us ladies, while falling into the pear category, are a little more curvaceous; like Yours Truly, you may have a fuller bust and thicker shoulders, making the guidelines for dressing different from a traditional pear shaped woman. 


I've struggled for years to find the right way to dress my body. It's important to love yourself and your body, but it's hard to when you feel like everything you try on is wrong for you. 

Then I found LOFT. 

When I say it was a perfect fit I am not exaggerating. I'm not paid to say this, nor am I endorsed by LOFT or any other brands -- to be endorsed by LOFT is a definite career goal but currently unfulfilled. Totally unbiased review here! ;)


                         


All their clothes seem to hit at just the right spots, bringing out my curves without highlighting pooch or problem areas. Their items are well-made, stand up to vigorous washing, are gloriously classy and are ridiculously affordable (especially when LOFT has frequent 40% sales. Sign up for their emails! It's so worth it!) 


Which brings me to this winter chic look. I bought this coat 40% off in size medium back in October. I'd been lusting after gorgeous camel coats on Pinterest and this wool blend trench satisfied my craving. It's warm, fashionable, comfortable and not at all itchy. Bonus: there are four deep pockets (when does that happen in women's clothing? Amiright or amiright?) 


It's a lovely, rich color which instantly dresses up a casual outfit but is classy enough to stay in tune with formal attire. I feel like it should be called caramel- versus camel-colored. The belted coat is excellent choice for curvy pear-shaped ladies, because it defines the waist and prevents the "I'm-a-lump-of-bundled-cold-person" look. 


Scarf and convertible mittens were a present from my adorable fiancĂ©. Not only is he the cutest in our engagement photos but he made the cutest Santa ever. I recently posted a smoking pic of him on Instagram @monicadilworth. Don't be scandalized: it's only a cigarette. ;)


Speaking of my man, he very kindly went out into the cold and patiently took photos for Yours Truly.  I think he did a damn good job despite the gray, washed-out light of this winter day. 


This top is a gauzy utility shirt which has become Yours Truly's favorite go-to top. It's flattering and smoothly glides over problem areas. In a word, it's a magical blouse. 


Guess where it's from? That's correct. LOFT. 


I have it two colors, this burgundy and an ice blue. They look amazing loose with jeans or tucked into a pencil skirt. For those looking for minimalist wardrobe, this is a great start, since it flexibly goes from casual to professional. 


This top is great for curvy pear-shaped ladies because its fitted top accentuates the bust but slightly flares to meet the hips. No awkward buckling. At LOFT I'm usually a size small in their tops. 



A word on these heels! They are from Anne Taylor and Yours Truly found them 50% off during the Christmas sales. They are beautiful suede leather and have a surprisingly comfortable bed for the toes.


I've found that the trick to wearing skinny jeans in a flattering manner is to pair them with heels. It elongates the leg and keeps your silhouette from being chunky in the middle and squat in the thighs. More on these skinny jeans from American Eagle Outfitters later!


Toe color is from Drew Barrymore's Flower cosmetic line, in shade #np14, called Budding Romance. 


On the fingers it's Impeccable Greys, #410, from Maybelline's Color Show nail polish line. It's a great post-Christmas-blues hue. Reviews of these nail polishes to come! 

~Where Yours Truly found the look~
//  camel coat {LOFT, same *currently 60% off*} // burgundy blouse {LOFT, same *currently 60% off*} // lace up heels {Anne Taylor, same *currently 40% off*} // skinny jeans {American Eagle Outfitters, same *currently buy one get one 50% off*} // 


It's been a journey discovering what brands work with my body, but I've definitely found a home at LOFT. What brands have you found that work well with your shape? If you have any tips or thoughts on being a curvy pear shaped girl, let Yours Truly know in the comments. Not done with curvy pear how-tos? Check out my previous post featuring a leopard print dress and red boots. As always, thank you for subscribing, commenting, and re-sharing. I always love to hear back!

Wishing you well as 2015 becomes 2016,
Yours Truly,
Monica :) 

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Saturday, December 26, 2015

Women & Their Wardrobes: How to Style Your Height

librarian vintage boho autumn style

While height can give model-status it also makes for challenging fashion situations. Meet Amy, a lovely woman who has gracefully figured out how to style her height. Yours Truly is flattered to have her on the blog for the fourth installment of Women and their Wardrobes! Previously featured were Allie, who taught us the meaning of classy; Annie, who shared tips on dressing your curves; and Kinsey, who shared her all-American style. 


Amy’s style is a boho-vintage-librarian mix, with a lot of various textures, focusing on earth and jewel tones. She is a well-spoken lady who never budges without a book under her arm, Amy works as a tutor and writing coach at her college while earning honors in the English Literature department. She is a beautiful lady who needs no further introduction. 

Body Type: Birch Sprite
Height: 5’8
Spirit Animal: Morning Dove
Currently listening to: The Other Guys
Dream: Dante and Medieval literature and poetry; grad school at Oxford and published author.

Outfit #1: Sunday brunch look 


librarian vintage boho autumn style


YT: Thank you for being on the blog! Could you tell us how this casual outfit works with your height? 

AmyI’m long in the torso and in the legs, so I try to balance the lengths out.  Jeans are definitely the hardest thing to find and I gravitate towards skirts. Maxi skirts are hard sometimes because they hit awkwardly, just 3ish inches above the ankle. I like to go for knee-length skirts or long and sweeping.  I do a lot of altering, either at the waistline or hemline or a combo; whatever makes it work!

librarian vintage boho autumn style

The top works well on my because it draws attention to my hips, balancing out my long torso and legs. It’s a long shirt so it makes my proportions look even. A shorter top would make the skirt look longer and throw the whole look off.

librarian vintage boho autumn style

These textures are more smooth; the top is sleek with the crinkly skirt. Matches well!

librarian vintage boho autumn style


This skirt looks great with the lightness of the top, but a thicker wool or chunky knit sweater would detract from it. 

librarian vintage boho autumn style

I love boho and vintage accessories. 

Where Amy got the look: 
// skirt (garage sale, 50c) // top (thrift, $3) // heels (thrift, $5) // anklet (handmade) // scarf (Florence, $7) //

librarian vintage boho autumn style

Outfit #2: Casual autumn afternoon look 

YT: Girl’s daytime date look! Great for fall. Why do you love this outfit? 

librarian vintage boho autumn style

AmyI love jewel tones and earth tones, as they look best on me. Pastels are harder for me to wear; they need far more planning to pull off. That's why I naturally tend to gravitate toward darker colors. 

librarian vintage boho autumn style

I love lace. I don’t own much but it complements everything and is very vintage. 

librarian vintage boho autumn style

I like the lightness of the sweater; fine texture and delicate patterns are what I gravitate towards. I love whispy: long skirts, long cardigans, tunics.

librarian vintage boho autumn style

Again, the vintage details are important: I finished off this look with a cameo. 

librarian vintage boho autumn style


Where Amy found the look: 
// skirt (thrift, $2) // top (thrift, $3) // long cardigan (Wet Seal, clearance, $10) // boots (Florence, $42) // Necklace (a gift) // Ring (Krakow, Poland, $12) // Charm bracelet (a gift) //

YT: Thank you, Amy, for being on the blog! Any fashion tips for us before we wrap up? 

Amy: Colors are a big deal. Texture matters. Make sure your textures work together! Combining textures is key to dressing outfits up or down. 

Any tips you want to share about being a tall girl in a short world? Let Yours Truly know in the comments! Are you in the same boat as Yours Truly and clock in a magnificent, albeit small, 5'4? Read my post about dressing a short, curvy figure. Thanks for reading, and don't forget to reshare and subscribe. 

Here's hoping you had a safe and blessed holiday season!
Yours Truly,
Monica :)